What happens when after giving your best to a relationship you hardly get back anything out of it? Sometimes bits…Sometimes even less…
What should be your next step?
•Should you let it go as it is?
•Should you look for other options?
•Should you give up?
Well, do not look for an answer out here because I myself have no idea about it and I would welcome any reasoning through comments. But one thing is for sure that the world is in dearth of sensitive people nowadays.
Life has changed. So have we…Everyday there is a new challenge and a new adventure. We are competitive and love facing life as it comes. However do you stop for a moment to think how many people you have hurt today through your words, action or deeds? If you have then you might find this post interesting.
Sometimes I wish things were a bit different. The percentage of sensitive people was a bit more and one really understood the meaning of it all. We look out for fun, food, dance, masti and what not but at the end of the day out of the hundreds you roam with have you ever thought who will be the one listening to all the crap you have to say. The one who will say ‘yes you can’ when you know you can’t…the one who will confidently say ‘yes I’m there for you no matter what’…If you have not yet considered then give it a thought.
There are a lot of things in life THAT MATTER no matter how smartly we say ‘I care a damn’. The problem is we often fail to realize that small things in life have the same importance like that of the bigger ones. It is not always about the film you last watched together or the grand party you attended but the last call you made just to say-‘Don’t worry I’m ok’ can be far more touching and close to your heart.
Human mind is complicated and desires for more. I agree. But the minimal sense of responsibility and sensitivity can never be taught. If you know that you care you are bound to be responsible. Excuses work to a certain extent but not always. If you expect that every time someone will come up and point out that you should have done this, you could have said that…that won’t last for long. The end result…you may lose out on the person who really cared!!! The realization may not be instant. Things may not even make a difference to you just at that point. But the day you realize, it may be too late!
Life is not just about making or having a relationship…it may be any like those with your Family, lover, friends or acquaintances…it’s about living it well and maintaining it with love and care. Do not leave a space to ‘say sorry’ but create spaces to say ‘I love you’. Trust me you will feel the difference!!!